What to wear to a wedding
We all know what it is like to go through our wardrobes again in order to find out again that we have no idea what to wear to a wedding! Time, season and formality all play a role in how to pick your ensemble, but for the most part it is common sense. The later in the day the longer your hemline, the warmer the weather the lighter the material your clothes should be and if your invitation includes the words “black tie” or “white tie” get ready for some drama. Here are some tips for stress-free guest dressing.
Informal:
a chic little sun-dress.
a skirt and a sweater set with slingback shoes.
a suit (light colored for day, darker colors for evening)
Semi-formal:
a darker dress – nothing over the top but something fun to dance in
a sophisticated, dressy suit
Formal (daytime):
a shorter dress
a suit
hats and gloves optional
Black Tie:
long cocktail dress
add some glamor with beading, wrap, etc.
White Tie:
long gown
extra glitz such as furs, diamonds, etc.
DO
- take a clutch instead of a bag
- wear a smile!
- think ahead, most stress accumulates if you wait until last minute to pick your dress
DON’T
- wear white to a wedding. Ever. It’s seen as competing with the bride, so let’s stay away from that!
- wear black before 6 pm
- add sequins, fur and glitz unless black tie or white tie is specified
Remember
- for personal styling you should check out the posts on body type and coloring
- love your natural waist by looking for fun pieces that emphasize it and add pizazz, like belts, sashes, rouching, etc.





April 18th, 2008 at 4:42 am
You know I think I’m going to copy this advice for future reference. I’ve never seen it condensed so well. Thanks Christa!
April 21st, 2008 at 5:49 am
Great reminders! Thanks!
April 21st, 2008 at 11:44 am
Thanks so much!
Just wondering…are there any guidelines for what to wear to funerals?
April 21st, 2008 at 12:39 pm
Thank you for this post; it’s really helpful!
And now I know what body type I am (I’ve always been confused)
April 28th, 2008 at 4:40 pm
Ellie-
Funerals have always been an occasion of respect and sympathy for the bereaved family. With that in mind, your clothes should not be the centerpiece, or attract much attention. Think, classy dark colors in simple style, Navy, Black, Grey.
It’s o.k. to accessorize, but keep it toned down.