You’ve met her: she is you.
Tuesday, October 30th, 2007A women’s physical appeal begins with her fundamental actions behind closed curtains. Learn to radiate your natural beauty and be truly comfortable in your own skin.
You’ve met her at some point. You can’t help but notice her. Her appeal is nothing so concrete as her fabulous black pants that fit her just so, or the penetrating eye contact she makes when meeting someone for the first time. She possesses an aura, an intangible allure that surrounds her like a faint scent of perfume, so that even when you come upon her unexpectedly in the produce section of the market–startled but smiling with her basket in the crook of her arm, face naked and glowing without makeup-she is more beautiful than any woman you know. She is confident, self-possessed. She is bien dans la peau–comfortable in her own skin, as the French so precisely term it.
For a rare few, the aplomb comes maddeningly naturally. Most, however, must breed it through a very private road of introspection and discovery of the authentic self. Such self-possession is not only critical to professional performance and personal fulfillment, but provides the foundation for becoming an unforgettable woman who is fully present in her own life. Though style is an integral part, self-possession goes beyond what jeans are hugging your bum to the attitude with which you’re wearing them. Like anything worthwhile and lasting, being bien dans la peau isn’t merely something to check off a to-do list, but burgeons through conscious nurturing and practice.
Part 2: “5 steps to becoming bien des la peau (coming soon)
by Margaret Everton Eliza Magazine











